The First Birthday is a BIG deal in Korea. They do it up BIG. It's called a Dol. They dress them up in their Hanboks and make up a HUGE table full of food and then lay some things out like a piece of thread, a pen or pencil, money, and I forget the other stuff. Anyway the babies are encouraged to pick something off the table. If they pick the piece of thread, they are said to have a long life. The pen or pencil means they will be a scholar. And the money usually means they will be wealthy in life. I wonder what Joye picked? I'm sure we will soon find out.
We celebrated our day in a different fashion. First, we went under the house an drug out all the pieces to Joye's crib. I just couldn't bare the thought of an empty crib for six months. So we decided to put it up today. So here it is.
I then got started on supper, which looked like this - Bibimbop. LOVED IT. Not because I cooked it, but because it was really good. It's a keeper. I am going to have to make this more often.
The boys were able to blow out their own candle as well.
It was a good day. I was sad at first, when I got out of bed. But then I realized that it's a real special thing that she was able to spend her first birthday in Korea with her Foster Family. The pictures will be priceless. She had an authentic Dol, something that I can't give her here. I will have many, many more birthday's to celebrate in a lifetime. One away from her isn't going to kill me.
I missed her like crazy, though. And I can't WAIT to get her home.
Happy Birthday Sweet Girl! We love you more than you'll EVER know and we can't wait to have you here! (Happy Birthday to little Bee too, Joye's unofficial twin!)
5 comments:
Happy Birthday Joye! It's a very special day to celebrate and it's hard to not have her there with you but you're right Jayme, you will have so many more to share with her and this one is extra special that she can spend in Korea with her FM. I LOVE that you made confetti cupcakes! Growing up, my mom always made me confetti cake for my B-Day and actually still does! It's hard to not be with our babies on their 1st birthdays, but in the big picture, we will have them for the rest of their lives so it's kind of nice that their FM get to share this with them after taking such good care of them. Hang in there - your EP is coming. . . Thinking of you.
What a lovely, beautiful post. I love that you celebrated Joye's birthday so fully, and I love your attitude about this being special that she's able to have her Dol in Korea in a very authentic way. I'm psyching myself up to think this way too when Max's birthday arrives in June. (Wish me luck :) Btw, how cool that Joye & Bee share the same birthday!!
Happy Birthday Joye!
Happy Birthday Joye! I look forward to finding out what she picked during the Dol celebration. Any EP news? I was hoping they'd go straight to Nov since aac had no Oct referrals.
What a great way to celebrate her birthday. Can't wait to see some pictures!
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